(1) you really don't need hardware raid.. in fact, it will be a bottleneck. Use LinuxMCE's built in RAID functionality, put LinuxMCE on the system disk, and have either a sata back plane or a bunch of sata ports to drop in disks. Keep in mind, that you can also drop in external USB disks (on either the core or any media director), and NAS appliances, and LinuxMCE will use them as well.
(2) for Tuner cards, use the HDHomeRun for HD tuning. Trust me on this. We are also adding support for the Hauppauge HD-PVR unit, for cable boxes, or other AV devices that have Component out.
(3) yes, use ethernet.. furthermore, use 1000-baseT ethernet, with Cat6 cabling. Also use a good switch.. the switch will make or break your setup when multiple HD tuners and bouncing streams across the house.
(4) use something else other than the Mac Mini. We do not support it currently. I recommend the MSI Media Live barebone..drop in ram, drop in a BE2400 CPU, done.
(5) IR Blaster, use the USB UIRT, with a Xantech 286 double-IR emitter to start off with, attach to at least your TV, and/or your amplifier.. If you need to control other A/V devices, look into Xantech IR distribution blocks.
Oh, btw. You need to understand our required network setup. You must use two network cards in the core. Read that again. One network card is connected to your DSL modem, the other NIC is connected to your internal switch. LinuxMCE handles DHCP, Firewall, Gateway, etc. Don't argue, we have a lot of reasons for doing this, the first of which is to make this system as easy to set up as possible, while providing all the functionality needed (such as network booting, and automatic detection of network devices that hop on and off the network)
Other recommended pieces:
* Nokia N800 as an orbiter control
* Windows MCE as a TV remote if wanted
* A supported cell phone (Symbian, Windows Smartphone 2003/2005, Java based cell phones with JSR082)
* Cisco 7970 IP phone
* Z-Wave or Insteon for lighting, security, and climate control
* GC-100, for connecting to doorbells, contact sensors, sprinkler valves, smoke alarms etc.
* Panasonic IP camera
Welcome to LinuxMCE. Yes, we do have stringent hardware requirements, but the pay-off is enormous. We do wish to support as much hardware as we can, but we need help from more people to make that possible. In the mean time, we know precisely what hardware works with this system, and what doesn't. :-)
-Thom