Ok got it up and running, disabling the DHCP worked. one of my shares has shown up but not the other. your running a server so it shouldnt be on anyway but I turned off simple file sharing. then I shared my D drive, and then my music folder. I also created a user account on my xp system made them an admin, and it worked. I still cant figure out why the other share has shown up.
The new issue that I am having is MCE keeps coming up saying it has found a new share, I enter the login information, it says it wants to restart the router, then rebuild the orbiter. I do all that let about 15 minutes go by and it will come up wanting me to repeat the process again.
another thought I did set a password on the xp machine just because I dont like leaving a system wide open either.