i disabled both the onboard sound and the onboard NIC and then did a reinstall of LinuxMCE. I forgot that LinuxMCE acts as a DHCP server so I have now turned it off in my router. shouldn't really make much of a difference since I use static IP's well except for the wireless, So far everything is still cabled outside of my laptop.
The odd thing was, LinuxMCE saw all of my shared directories, went through the whole set up of each, made them all public and yet still nothing. hmm, either way we shall see how this goes...