Might have been that bowl of stupid I had for breakfast!!!!
On a lighter note I had the cables hooked up wrong and couldn't get the media director to access the core. Once I re did the cables internet from the cable modem into the router then all devices and the core hooked to the router letting the netgear do it's normal thing, everything popped up and was recognized. As far as the software updates for the core went I added:
deb
http://fastspeedtest.net/mirrors/ubuntu/ intrepid main restricted universe multiverse
deb
http://fastspeedtest.net/mirrors/ubuntu/ intrepid-updates main restricted universe multiverse
deb
http://fastspeedtest.net/mirrors/ubuntu/ intrepid-security main restricted universe multiverse
deb
http://ubuntu.k-net.ru/ubuntu/ intrepid-backports main restricted universe multiverse
deb
http://ubuntu.k-net.ru/ubuntu/ intrepid main restricted universe multiverse
deb
http://ubuntu.k-net.ru/ubuntu/ intrepid-updates main restricted universe multiverse
deb
http://ubuntu.k-net.ru/ubuntu/ intrepid-security main restricted universe multiverse
then did the update and then installed the image and everything started working from there on out so far
I do have some issues still, as I can no longer log into the admin page from the computer I am typing this on, once again from the core i can log in and internet works from the core as in weather & youtube. And I am still waiting on the media director to boot all the way up, i do get a kubuntu screen then it goes to a flashing dot so i was playing it safe and just letting it be for a bit.
***Update****
Guess I didn't quite get it yet, as the media director won't boot up fully, getting a kernal panic and with the admin page not functioning on remote pc's something must still be amiss, has to be the cableing right?