Yes, I have modified the post...
A good number of your points are valid, however, there is only so much the developers can do with limited time and resources. We need help,
You haven't been following any development discussions, so how could you possibly know how things are going?
I am a bit miffed at your tone of, "make it nice and perfect and MAYBE i'll come back." but I'm sure that was unintentional.
-Thom
Since you modified the post after I started my last reply, then was away from my computer for a bit, let me reply to this directly.
I'm still going to leave my original reply as is because your "don't let the door hit you on the way out" is far too common and I think my reply is valid. Ok, I may have been a bit unfairly harsh, but I'm leaving my knee-jerk reaction to your knee-jerk reaction.
I'm not a coder. Probably never will be. I'm a Unix admin. As part of my unix work I sometimes do ksh scripting all day long. I've also done a bit of python programming. The LAST thing I want to do after work is code especially if it means learning/re-learning a language. I don't follow the dev forums, although I do pick up the occasional bit here and there, such as the plan to re-write the orbiter.
My tone may have come across as "make it perfect and maybe I'll come back" but it certainly wasn't meant that way. To put it simple: My wife does not like the LinuxMCE interface so I finally gave in and switched to MythTV, now she is happy. I plan to come back to LMCE as soon as it's user friendly enough that she is ok with it. I have confidence that this will be the case once the orbiter has been re-written. I'm technical, she is not. Things that I, and most everyone here, are fine with she sees as ugly, unintuitive, or a hassle. I think it would do everyone some good to sit down with a non-technical person with no LMCE exposure and get their honest opinion.
My suggestions, and they are only suggestions, are based on what I have seen here and with other projects like MythTV. Additional coders will come with a larger user base. A larger user base will come with easier, more flexible install and a more user friendly UI.