I have the DCHP still on in the router. Not sure if that is right or not, but without it the wireless is down.
Not sure how my Nokia 770 is going to work as orbiter if its on the 192.168.1.XX network

Wow, hadn't thought about the double-NIC setup requiring wireless to be attached to the internal NIC... Wonder if setting up the External Access (in the web-admin interface) would fix it??? When I had an almost identical setup, but with only
single-NIC on the Hybrid, router with DHCP disabled worked just fine, because the Hybrid picked up the request for DHCP, and answered it. However, it's quite often reported that single-NIC setups cause more trouble than they're worth...
At this point, on a dual-NIC Hybrid, here's my own setup:
DSL Modem (acquires public IP, seen as 192.168.1.1 internally) --> ETH0 on Hybrid (takes 192.168.1.2 from modem) --> ETH1 --> wifi AP --> 2 wired systems, an additional AP, and a switch for the storage-cluster in garage
I don't know much about FiOS, so I don't know if your router actually handles auth and such... If so, you'll probably need to disable the wireless radio on the FiOS, and add a cheap wifi AP to your ETH1...
Sorry about my misinformation, before... I assumed (We all know what that means, right??) that your's was like a standard DSL or Cable system. I actually like the sound of FiOS, now that I've looked into it more, but it'll be another decade before it's available here...
Good luck... I hope you're up and running soon!!